The Breakdown – Andre Donovan and Jack Bailey and milkingCOACH

Getting out of the head and into the body requires the ability to surrender. On one hand, control is necessary in order to feel psychologically safe to be fully aroused. On the other hand, we have to then relinquish that control in order to soar into the heights of pleasure. This process can be tricky, because we typically lean into our comfort zones and routines because they allow us to feel safe behind preferred self images. The Breakdown is about that relationship between control and surrender – the removal of obstacles to our own pleasures. In this scene, we utilize Coach as a way to help Andre and Jack build a bridge between both of these necessary poles.